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Abandoned boat by Lake Argentino, Patagonia, Argentina. Photo by Charles F. Stanley.
Daily Devotion

A Partner for Accountability

What are the qualities we should look for in an accountability partner?

Galatians 6:1-10

It’s very helpful to have a trusted, godly friend who can perceive what you can’t see when blind spots or weaknesses block your vision. God uses this kind of relationship to promote spiritual growth—someone who genuinely cares for you and watches out for your best interest. An accountability partner should be ... 

  • Godly. A person who walks in the Spirit will offer wisdom rooted in biblical principles (Prov. 27:17).

  • Trustworthy. You need to be certain that everything shared will be kept in the strictest confidence.

  • Accepting. This person must allow you to be yourself, frailties and all, without judgment.

  • Courageous. A good accountability partner will lovingly confront you with the truth when necessary (Eph. 4:15).

  • Forgiving. Trust deepens when mistakes are met with grace instead of stored up as ammunition.

  • Encouraging. The right partner builds you up rather than tears you down (Eph. 4:29).

We can all benefit from someone who’s able to lovingly say what we need to hear. If you don’t already have a blessing like this in your life, ask God to lead you to the right person—and to prepare your heart to be that kind of partner for someone else.

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